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  1. Joshua Thomas

    Such a timely article! I must say, I respect the way you delivered the content–with feeling and candour. It is difficult sometimes for us as men to express ourselves to our loved ones so we tend to miss the fact that V-day is a perfect opportunity to really just open up. Granted, it shouldn’t take 1 day to show love an appreciation, but I believe it’s a good place to ‘jump-start’ discussions about deepening the relationship with our spouse. Thanks for this, I really enjoyed reading.

    • Thabo Nkomo

      Hi Joshua,

      I agree with your sentiments. Too many men grow old and have the regret of wondering if they had shown enough love to the women in their lives. V-day as you said is indeed the perfect opportunity to really open your heart. Have a great Valentines Day.

  2. Evita

    I wasn’t expecting to read about all these tragedies in a post with that title! But your writing is very captivating and i read it with great pleasure. I am sure your books must be very interesting. You are lucky you can express your emotions and heal yourself through storytelling and writing. I believe every celebration reminds us of our losses and partly this is because there would be no joys if there wasn’t for sadness in the world as well.

    • Thabo Nkomo

      Hi Evita,

      Yes, sometimes I think life is about balance. As you said, it’s hard to know joy unless you have known sadness.I’m still haunted by the memories of special people that I have lost, but I take joy in renewed friendships and love. I wish you a very happy Valentines Day.

  3. achuthan

    This is a health website that I enjoyed going through from end to end filled with very good information and illustrations. The TENS Therapy used for back pain relief was particularly interesting.It is easy to understand and follow and very sound advise. Well written and very wide range of helpful and practical tips for healthy living.It has a good exercise regiment for anyone with health in mind to follow.
    The website is well laid out and easy to navigate.
    The author has also done a good job on monetizing the website with relevant links to affiliate sites.
    Covering wide ranging health topics, this website is a promising one to attract a lot of visitors once it gets more exposure. Overall, well done.

    • Thabo Nkomo

      I thank you for taking the time to examine my website. I’m glad you enjoyed the Tens Therapy post. I had a lot of fun writing it. Your encouragement has inspired me to keep doing my best to bring helpful information for people trying to manage chronic pain.

  4. Anthony

    Hey there,
    I think that this is a great post that helped me write my valentines day letter this year. It was a great analogy to compare the letter to a heartfelt apology. It should be like opening your heart deeply to show how much you care as much as possible. Thanks for the great information for this holiday!

    • Thabo Nkomo

      Hi Anthony,

      I think that sometimes we may hurt the people we love, and we need to remind them what they mean to us. I thank you for sharing your thoughts. Have a great Valentines Day.

  5. Joshua

    Well said and structured. Am sure many men will appreciate this for valentines day. Many men struggle with expressing their love for their wives so this is an eye opener.

  6. louloublogger1980

    Well thought out..how nice. I hope lots of people read this. Lots of people need to know how to do Valentines day. Although I dont celebrate it, If I did i’d try and do it properly lol.

    How do you feel about not celebrating Valentines day?

    When I get the chance i’m going to look at the rest of the site you have some interesting topics.

    Best.

    • Thabo Nkomo

      I think it doesn’t matter wether you personally celebrate Valentine’s Day. I think the important thing is understanding how to open your heart and that can be done anytime of the year.

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